For a table across several generations, a khantoke dinner show is the least demanding choice. Buffet Khantoke Dinner at Khum Khantoke Chiang Mai pairs a khantoke spread with a performance in a Lanna house setting and carries a high review count, while Buffet Khantoke Dinner at Old Chiangmai Cultural Center is a long-established venue in the same format. Both run on fixed show times, so confirm when to arrive.
For a hotel buffet, Buffet at Kad Kafe by Shangri-La Hotel Chiang Mai is worth considering - a hotel buffet between the Old City and the Night Bazaar with wide choice and comfortable seating that works with older parents. All You Can Eat Dim Sum at Jasmine Restaurant by Dusit Princess Chiang Mai is dim sum led and different enough to compare alongside it.
To use the afternoon, there is a wide choice of afternoon tea. Afternoon Tea at The Service 1921 By Anantara Chiang Mai Resort occupies a historic building at the riverside resort, while Afternoon Tea at TIME Riverfront Cuisine & Bar By Na Nirand Romantic Boutique Resort fills the afternoon at a riverside boutique property. Slotting one between temple visits takes the edge off a walking day.
For a night view, look at Hong's Sky Bar by InterContinental Chiang Mai The Mae Ping, set high over the city and well suited to the evening. In the same hotel, Set Menu at The Gad Lanna is the option when you want a Lanna cuisine course dinner.
Before booking, confirm the reservation method and service hours, show start time and duration, buffet or set structure with adult and child pricing, whether seating is floor-style, dress code and the cancellation window. Some khantoke venues use floor seating, so check the seating format in advance if older parents are coming.